Is that a gun I feel or are you just happy to see me? Roleplay is a great way for you to get out of your head, your daily life and so much more.

You can discover new fun things about your partner and spice up your sex life. It is important to note that even though your partner may loooove the character you play that doesn’t mean they don’t love you for you. It’s fun to enjoy a fantasy and all you’re doing is bringing that fantasy to life.

13 Role Play Tips

Start with a text.
Start texting one another before you see each other to kind of get into the whole mood. You’re both building a character that you and your partner can enjoy. So if you start with a text you can get the ball rolling. It may also help lead the right direction of where you want things to go.
Time to dress up!
From your underwear to your hair, don’t be afraid to get fully into character. You can try something new and go sans underwear if you so desire. You can put in a toy and let your partner take control! The choice is yours as is your outfit, don’t be afraid to get fancy, make the image you have in your head come to life.

Changing your outfit can also help with your character, you can fit it to the demeanor and attitude you want to exude. And if you are a little uncertain having this outfit change can help you make your character more believable for both you and even help your partner understand your character more.
Talk about boundaries
The last thing you want to do is cross your partners boundaries without even realizing it. You may enjoy things that you want to keep out of roleplay or you may feel comfortable trying some new things being wrapped up in this character. It’s important that you discuss this with your partner.

Have a safe word ready, this will indicate to your partner that you both need to come out of character and stop what’s going on. It doesn’t have to be for just a physical reason, it can also be an emotional, you may have been triggered or be upset by something. It’s okay to call out the safe word when you need to.
Laughter isn’t bad.
You are both roleplaying, these aren’t who you are. It’s okay for both of you to laugh if you mess up a line or if you just find it funny. Laughing is the cause of many things, it’s okay to laugh.

The key is to keep going after you laugh. Take a moment or use your partners laughter as part of the scene. Don’t let it deter you from your scene however. Just go with it and keep on going! It happens to us all.. trust me!
Prepare your scene.
As much as the scene is “spontaneous “you can still enjoy a little bit of prep. Like having your sex toys out or any props you may want to use to enhance your character.

You can also make any necessary changes to your furniture or make a reservation at a restaurant if you’re going out. You don’t have to be struggling to figure out your entire scene last minute so do some prep to make things the way you’d like. You can even take a few moments before beginning to get yourself into character!
The goal is to have fun, spice up your sex life and enjoy your partner. Don’t be afraid to let that happen, be open to what your partner wants to try and just go with it. It may be odd and it may not be your cup of tea but so long it doesn’t break your boundaries give it a shot!

Fun Roleplay Ideas

Wild wild west!
You have just arrived to the local Saloon and something/someone has caught your eye. While you’re only in town for a night, you want to take advantage of you currently fancy. Swooning your desire with affection, they fall for you and you have a wild night full of an array of cowgirl/cowboy/reverse doggy positions!
Professor meets student.
As a student you are always eager to learn, and while you haven’t had a bunch of time to indulge in the enjoyment of adult activities you are eager to learn more about them. Who better than your well versed Professor? They can teach you a thing or two in a sack and since you’re so eager to learn, they’ll be sure to teach you a lot.
Pizza delivery!
If porn has taught us anything it’s that nobody ever remembers they have to pay for a pizza! This can turn into a food sploshing fun activity or it just be a really enjoyable sex scene. How will your partner have to pay your for the pizza? Will they be able to talk you into coming into the house? Who gives who a taste of the pizza pie? Create this scene and find out!

There’s just a few ideas for you to enjoy with your partner. Don’t be afraid to have fun and explore! Keep your mind open, your thoughts dirty and your orgasms coming.